Online Dating: Do you get offended if you get ghosted?
More and more people are turning to the online dating world now, its handy to meet people that you wouldn't normally of met and I'm sure you have friends who have met their partners on one of the online dating platforms. But do you find that you get a lot of rejections or even worse... you start a conversation with someone and it just suddenly stops as you're waiting for a reply?
Is easy to get offended and upset if someone you're getting to know online just disappears on you for what seems like there is no reason, and you may wonder why you bother or you delete the dating app and don't try again. Well there are reason's, in fact there could be thousands of reasons why you have been ghosted, but these thousands of reason are not your fault. Reasons you may have been ghosted and its not your fault can include:
They met someone else before they met you and they want to see how that goes
They just realised they want to stay single
They want to focus on other interests and don't have time for dating
They been hurt before and are afraid
They are getting over an ex
They just had a death in the family
They just got fired from their job
Okay I could go on and on here but the point is there are many reasons why you were ghosted and there was nothing you could of done about it. The truth is that dating is a numbers game and the more dates you go on and the more people you speak to then the more likely you will find what you want. But there are going to be a lot of rejections along the way, but you are just going to have to shrug these off and keep going.
Whatever you are looking for there is someone out there for you, just learn to enjoy the process.
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